Arah Pembangunan Hukum Keluarga Islam Indonesia: Pendekatan Integratif dan Interkonektif dalam Membangun Keluarga Sakinah

Abstract

So  far  the  subjects  discussed  in  Islamic Marriage/Family Law (Munakahat) limited marriage matter only and using the normative approach (halal and haram). In fact the successness  of  family  is  not  enough  by  merely  understanding marriage matter and the normative approach. To build a happy family  as  the  goal  of  marriage  in  Islam  is  required  other knowledges  and  approaches  outside  the  normative  approach. Even  with other subjects and using multi approach, it is possible to uncover the secret behind the Quranic texts discuss marriage. This  paper  attempts  to  illustrate  how  science  Ethnology,  as illustrated  Hazairin,  can  reveal  the  secret  behind  the  Quranic verse  discuss  mahram  (women  are  forbidden  to  marry)  as  it  is described in al-Nisa? (4): 22, 23, and 24. Likewise, this paper tries to  offer  a  number  of  subjects  that  should  be  included  in  the
subject  of  Islamic  marriage  in  order  to  be  able  to  achieve  the goal  of  marriage  and  family  breakdown  can  be  avoided.  To mention some of which are: (1) the science about sexuality and sciences  related  thereto,  (2)  the  science  of  reproduction  and reproductive  health,  (3)  knowledge  of  health  and  family nutrition,  and  (4)  knowledge  about  building  communication between family members.